Renae Oosterveld is Ben's wife. They have been together for 17 years and they have 5 children.

During this episode, Renae will share her views on raising children to have their own voice and the differences between her and Ben's beliefs and the challenges they face. 

Time Stamps:

• 04:37- The journey of what Renae believed and when Ben questioned his
• 07:26 - Do we teach the kids the right way or do we teach them to listen to their heart to make the right decision
• 09:24 - Having real conversions with our kids
• 10:09 - Parents fear how their kids are going to turn out
• 11:38 - Belief vs knowing
• 15:00 - What does Ben believe?
• 16:40 - Questioning what Ben believes
• 20:07 - Renae’s own belief journey
• 23:26 - Ben being scared of everything around him
• 24:49 - Ben’s quest for truth
• 26:10 - Live in fear or live truly who you are
• 28:17 - Why Renae wanted to come on the podcast
• 29:28 - Deep conversations with our older kids
• 30:14 - What Renae has taught Ben about being a better dad
• 37:19 - How Renae tells someone how to hear their kids