Single and Not Settling

54. Keep Your Options Open! The Four Man Plan with Claire Elizabeth Dea


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..."Don't place all your eggs in one basket!"


In this motivating interview, Vanessa Maree sits with Clare Elizabeth Dea as she shares her journey of transforming her shame into power, her unique approach to dating through the four-man plan, and the importance of authenticity, solid friendships and following your dreams for women seeking fulfilling relationships.


In this episode, we discuss:

  • What Poland Syndrome is and how Clare spent years hiding this part of herself.
  • The surprising dating patterns and men Clare attracted when she was hiding parts of herself.
  • The question every single woman should ask herself if she wants to attract a healthy relationship.
  • The famous "4 Man Plan" and why dating multiple people can help women stop fixating on one man too early.
  • Dating as a spiritual practice rather than a performance.
  • How understanding your friends' values, needs and love languages can create stronger connections.

Together, we explore how shame can shape our relationships, dating experiences, friendships, confidence and the way we show up in the world.


More on Clare! Clare Elizabeth Dea has claimed the stage as a performance artist, keynote speaker, workshop facilitator and author, inspiring women to transform shame into power. Her memoir Shame To Shine is a #1 best seller on Amazon in multiple categories. 


Featured on mainstream media, various publications, and social media platforms, Clare is celebrated for creating spaces where women truly connect, collaborate, and shine their brightest together.


Clare is available for MC, speaking and singing opportunities. If her story resonates with you, be sure to connect with her on social media and slide into her DMs!

Connect with Clare on Instagram here: @clareelizabeth_dea

or check out her website www.clareelizabethdea.com


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Single and Not SettlingBy Vanessa Maree