In this mini episode, I’m unpacking an uncomfortable, but necessary conversation. I recently said “men suck” online (because… lived experience), while also saying we shouldn’t be using “small dick” as an insult - and wow, did that ruffle some feathers. So let’s actually talk about it.

We’re getting into:

• Why using penis size as an insult isn’t feminist, liberating, or progressive
• The difference between misogyny and misandry (and why they are not opposites)
• How patriarchy and socialisation shape the way we behave
• Why hating your oppressors is valid
• And why criticising behaviour will always hit harder (and cleaner) than attacking someone’s physical appearance and penis size

I also reflect on my own learning curve - because feminism isn’t about being perfect, it’s about being willing to unlearn, re-learn, and do better.

This episode is for anyone who’s sick of body-shaming being passed off as empowerment, wants more nuance in feminist conversations, and believes we can dismantle patriarchy without throwing good, decent men under the bus.

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