The Faithful Steward

55: Money & Marriage: When It's Hard


Listen Later

We've said previously that most of the money problems in marriage aren't really problems over money. They're underlying issues that surface as arguments over finances but really go much deeper. In this episode, we'll look at three foundational causes of disagreements over money.

The first of these is a lack of shared vision and agreement over how we approach money. Often, this stems from differing family backgrounds surrounding money and how decisions were made in our family of origin.

The second is even deeper - it's a misalignment of priorities. One common reason for this misalignment is that one spouse is a believer and the other is not. Or different understandings of stewardship and ownership relative to money. When spouses are operating under opposing assumptions and priorities, it's hard to agree on numbers.

The third cause is mistrust or betrayal of trust, possibly because of things that have been hidden in the past or because of relational dynamics that cause one spouse to avoid discussions over financial decisions.

Uncovering these underlying issues is hard work and can take time - but the process can lead to a stronger marriage and to greater faithfulness in stewardship. Join us as host James Lenhoff discusses these issues and offers paths that lead to solutions.

To learn more check out www.GoodSenseMovement.org

Email James at: [email protected]

You can see the full video of this podcast episode on our YouTube channel.

...more
View all episodesView all episodes
Download on the App Store

The Faithful StewardBy James Lenhoff

  • 4.3
  • 4.3
  • 4.3
  • 4.3
  • 4.3

4.3

6 ratings


More shows like The Faithful Steward

View all
The Mel Robbins Podcast by Mel Robbins

The Mel Robbins Podcast

20,340 Listeners