Tests, Challenges and other Bullshit: In a world still playing by outdated dating rules, how do we navigate connection without getting lost in our old stories? This episode is about finding love — not by chasing “The One” or decoding mixed signals, but by becoming someone who doesn’t need the rules anymore. If you want something new, you can’t keep choosing what’s familiar. You have to swim in new waters — and trust that you won’t drown.