Communication is essential in marriage, but knowing how to deepen it is where many couples struggle.

One simple and powerful exercise we’ve used in our own marriage is asking each other intentional questions. Some are light and fun. Others invite us to reflect on our past, our experiences, and even the deeper questions of life. Each one opens the door to meaningful conversation and connection.

Questions create space for honesty, laughter, vulnerability, and intimacy. Over time, they help strengthen the bond between spouses and draw hearts closer together.

We’ve benefited immensely from this practice and have recommended it to many couples over the years.

In this episode, we model what this exercise looks like in real time. It’s simple, fun, and easy to try in your own relationship.

Try it with your spouse or partner (if you're in a relationship) and let us know how it goes. And if you already use questions to stay connected in your marriage, share in the comments how it’s impacted your relationship.

00:00 Introduction to Call to Marriage

00:04 The Connection Call Conversation

02:03 Ground Rules for Deep Conversations

02:35 Handling Sensitive Topics

02:52 Family Interruptions and Realities

03:12 Indirect Questions for Better Communication

04:47 Starting the Q&A Session

05:22 Reflecting on Our Relationship

08:51 Strengthening Our Bond

11:16 Feeling Loved and Appreciated

16:20 Expectations in Marriage

21:03 The Importance of Communication in Marriage

22:26 Forgiveness and Managing Expectations

26:00 Handling Conflicts with Transparency and Vulnerability

29:57 Resilience and Levity in Conflict Resolution

34:04 Receiving and Giving Constructive Feedback

36:58 Maintaining Oneness in Marriage

40:40 Final Thoughts and Community Engagement