Have you ever dreaded spending time with your kids? And then on top of that, felt guilty for even having these taboo feelings?     Humane expectations are a hallmark of justice-centered parenting. Expectations should be humane for kids AND their adult caregivers.     Oppressive systems feed on convincing us—and especially people with marginalized identities—that our own experiences are WRONG, keeping us ashamed and disconnected from our humanity.    Interrupting the cultural pattern of negating feelings is one tiny but essential way we can build a more humane future for everyone.     Subscribe now to stay updated on future episodes. Show notes and relevant links at justicecentered.com/episode