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57: Loving Difficult Family Well with Biblical Boundaries
Holiday tables can feel like tightropes: old roles resurface, expectations collide, and the urge to keep the peace can eclipse the call to make peace. We open up about awkward family moments, the pressure to please, and the liberating truth that you’re only responsible for your actions, feelings, and words—not for anyone else’s reaction. From there, we map a clear, grace-filled plan to navigate tense dynamics without losing your center.
We break down biblical boundaries as stewardship, not selfishness, and explore how guarding your heart actually frees you to love better. You’ll hear why pre-decisions reduce stress, how simple scripts like “Yes” and “No” protect your peace, and what it looks like to be both firm and kind. We dig into prayer as preparation, not an afterthought: confessing bitterness, asking for compassion, and receiving the peace of Christ that steadies you when conversations get loud. For heavier situations, we talk about fasting as a way to surrender control and seek wisdom, much like Esther did before a hard moment.
To round it out, we offer practical, memorable steps: cover the gathering in prayer, clarify your limits ahead of time, communicate clearly and with kindness, and compliment generously—even when kindness isn’t returned. Expect some disappointment from others and let that be okay. You can’t engineer outcomes, but you can cultivate a heart posture that honors God and blesses your family. If you’re ready to trade people-pleasing for peacemaking and step into the holidays with calm clarity, this one’s for you. Subscribe, share with a friend who needs it, and leave a review to help others find the show.
Recommended Reading:
Boundaries by Dr. Henry Cloud and Dr. John Townsend
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By LeanneHoliday tables can feel like tightropes: old roles resurface, expectations collide, and the urge to keep the peace can eclipse the call to make peace. We open up about awkward family moments, the pressure to please, and the liberating truth that you’re only responsible for your actions, feelings, and words—not for anyone else’s reaction. From there, we map a clear, grace-filled plan to navigate tense dynamics without losing your center.
We break down biblical boundaries as stewardship, not selfishness, and explore how guarding your heart actually frees you to love better. You’ll hear why pre-decisions reduce stress, how simple scripts like “Yes” and “No” protect your peace, and what it looks like to be both firm and kind. We dig into prayer as preparation, not an afterthought: confessing bitterness, asking for compassion, and receiving the peace of Christ that steadies you when conversations get loud. For heavier situations, we talk about fasting as a way to surrender control and seek wisdom, much like Esther did before a hard moment.
To round it out, we offer practical, memorable steps: cover the gathering in prayer, clarify your limits ahead of time, communicate clearly and with kindness, and compliment generously—even when kindness isn’t returned. Expect some disappointment from others and let that be okay. You can’t engineer outcomes, but you can cultivate a heart posture that honors God and blesses your family. If you’re ready to trade people-pleasing for peacemaking and step into the holidays with calm clarity, this one’s for you. Subscribe, share with a friend who needs it, and leave a review to help others find the show.
Recommended Reading:
Boundaries by Dr. Henry Cloud and Dr. John Townsend
Connect with me!
You can find me on Instagram @mrs.leannetuggle or you can email me at [email protected]. I love hearing from you!
Would you like more weekly encouragement? Subscribe to my newsletter Whatever is Lovely and be inspired to open your inbox again.
https://leannetuggle.myflodesk.com/v3r2zwdaik
If this is your first time here and this episode resonated, hit “subscribe” and submit a 5-star rating if you feel genuinely inspired to. Your positive feedback means the world to me!
Episode Sponsors:
Rodan + Fields - Take this brief quiz to find your customized skincare routine!
Red Aspen - Skip the salon appointment and shop here for hands that are hardworking AND elegant.
Whatever is Lovely - Subscribe here to the weekly newsletter designed to encourage you with words of wisdom and relatable content. Be inspired to open your inbox again.