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In this episode, I'm joined by Lori Montry — somatic healing practitioner, author of You're Not the Problem, and creator of the Freedom Formula (a nervous system–based roadmap for sustainable behavior change).
Lori's message is simple… and life-changing: you are not the problem. Your patterns aren't proof you're broken — they're proof you adapted. And the best part? You can adapt again… this time to return to you.
What we get intoWhy trauma isn't logical — it lives in the nervous system
Dissociation as a brilliant survival strategy (and why it can follow you into adulthood)
The moment survival stops protecting you… and starts suffocating you
The 3 foundational ingredients for real change: safety, capacity, and energy
Lori's big promise: there is a pathway out — and it's clear
Overwhelmed. Stuck. Like you "should" be able to get it together by now… This episode is your permission slip to stop blaming yourself and start getting curious about what your nervous system has been carrying.
And remember, midlife isn't a crisis...it's a plot twist.
xoxo
melis
Connect with Lori MontryInstagram: @lorimontry
Website: lorimontry.com (book + resources)
Book: You're Not the Problem (available in print, ebook/Kindle, and audiobook) — Lori shares that it's releasing April 25.
Connect with me (Melis)Website: motivatewithmelis.com
Instagram: @motivatewithmelis
Email: [email protected]
By Melissa MurphyIn this episode, I'm joined by Lori Montry — somatic healing practitioner, author of You're Not the Problem, and creator of the Freedom Formula (a nervous system–based roadmap for sustainable behavior change).
Lori's message is simple… and life-changing: you are not the problem. Your patterns aren't proof you're broken — they're proof you adapted. And the best part? You can adapt again… this time to return to you.
What we get intoWhy trauma isn't logical — it lives in the nervous system
Dissociation as a brilliant survival strategy (and why it can follow you into adulthood)
The moment survival stops protecting you… and starts suffocating you
The 3 foundational ingredients for real change: safety, capacity, and energy
Lori's big promise: there is a pathway out — and it's clear
Overwhelmed. Stuck. Like you "should" be able to get it together by now… This episode is your permission slip to stop blaming yourself and start getting curious about what your nervous system has been carrying.
And remember, midlife isn't a crisis...it's a plot twist.
xoxo
melis
Connect with Lori MontryInstagram: @lorimontry
Website: lorimontry.com (book + resources)
Book: You're Not the Problem (available in print, ebook/Kindle, and audiobook) — Lori shares that it's releasing April 25.
Connect with me (Melis)Website: motivatewithmelis.com
Instagram: @motivatewithmelis
Email: [email protected]