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5.9 The Sticky Middle Between Uplevels: Trusting the Transition After a Big Life Change


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You didn’t make a mistake. You’re not behind. You’re in the integration phase.

In this solo episode of Life Curious Women, Ashley dives into the sticky middle, the uncomfortable space between an old identity and a new one.

After losing her 9-5, stepping fully into freelancing, growing her acting career, and building a portfolio career, Ashley shares the real, behind-the-scenes emotional work of upleveling: nervous system recalibration, productivity guilt, income waves, ADHD structure, and learning to trust a new reality before you have proof.

If you’ve ever:

  • Left a job and felt disoriented
  • Started a business, podcast, or creative path and questioned everything
  • Experienced an identity shift that felt exciting and terrifying
  • Felt guilty for resting or having time freedom
  • Wondered if your growth was “a fluke”

This episode will give you language, tools, and reassurance for navigating life transitions without self-sabotage.

Ashley introduces the Life Curious Women Formula for moving through the in-between:

✨ Connection to self (nervous system work, therapy, journaling)
 ✨ Expansion (finding expanders and proof)
 ✨ Education (building confidence through learning)
 ✨ Action (small, aligned steps forward)

She also shares three powerful reflection questions to help you move from seeking external proof to building internal trust.

This is your reminder: the void is not punishment, it’s integration.

⏱️ In This Episode

  • The “sticky middle” between uplevels explained
  • Career transitions, freelancing, and portfolio careers
  • ADHD and creating your own structure
  • Nervous system regulation during identity shifts
  • Productivity guilt and time freedom
  • Why growth can feel lonely
  • How to build trust in a new version of your life
  • Tools to move through uncertainty without quitting

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