This week we answer the Yahoo Answers/Reddit questions: how should you split rent with an expecting couple, can you avoid telling secrets under anesthesia, and what are ways to look older with guest Solida Chem. We'll use the phrase "the baby" 58734939 times and I'll ask Solida's cat on a date. New episodes every Thursday.

You can find Solida @itsjustsolida on Instagram.

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