Gentle Power

6. The one trait that makes you a bad negotiator


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In this episode, we cover:

  • Why over-communicating is a career asset but a negotiation liability
  • Exact scripts to deflect salary-history questions and ask for their budget first
  • A real client story: turning a lowball salary-history request into leverage for a higher offer
  • Critical mistakes to avoid: from sharing your numbers too soon to skipping the written offer
  • Behind-the-scenes SF community highlights that shape our negotiation philosophy


Whether you’re navigating job offers, consulting contracts, or side-gig fees, this episode equips you with the mindset and language to negotiate like a pro.


We also pull back the curtain on our personal lives, including:

  • Our 13-year anniversary sneak-out through Richmond’s best Asian dessert spots.
  • Our Wellesley College origin story – that fateful first encounter on a tiny campus pathway in 2009.
  • “Turtle vs. Ninja Turtle” therapy hacks for squashing small issues before they blow up.
  • Adopting Fami, our non-binary mascot, to practice they/them pronouns and stand up for inclusion.


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Gentle PowerBy Gerta and Alex at YourNegotiations.com