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#6 - WHO should I go to for relationship advice?

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Who Should I Talk to About My Man?

💖 In This Episode: We dive into the topic of seeking relationship advice. Who should you turn to for guidance? What aspects of your life should you share with others? How does self-awareness play a role in this? Are neurotic individuals the right people to approach with your problems? We emphasise the importance of seeking advice from those who share your values and whose relationships you admire.

🎤 Key Questions:

  • Can I be completely open about my relationship?
  • What parts of my relationship should I share?
  • Why is it easier to share the negative aspects rather than the positive ones?

    • 🌟 Kat’s Perspective:

    • Main Insight: Avoid sharing with neurotic people.
    • Additional Insight: Neurotic individuals tend to be hyper-vigilant and quick to panic, which can leave you feeling more distressed. Aim for conversations that leave you calm and reassured.

      • 🌼 Lilly’s Perspective:

      • Main Insight: Focus on highlighting the positive aspects of your partner.
      • Additional Insight: Inspired by her sister Philomena, Lilly learnt the value of sharing joy and praise in relationships. It can be nurturing to celebrate the good in your relationship openly.

        • ✨ The Perfect Quote: “Whoever trusts in his own mind is a fool, but he who walks in wisdom will be delivered.” - Proverbs 28:26

        🎁 A Goodie to Takeaway: Take time to understand your own thoughts and feelings before seeking external advice. Strive to respond thoughtfully rather than react impulsively. This process is unique for everyone. We find solace in prayer and journaling—Lilly prefers a book, while Kat uses her phone.

        📚 Resources:

        • Brene Brown

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