Tribe Beloved: Love Notes

6. Why Am I Like This? 😖 (And How to Ask a Better Question)


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How many times have you asked yourself, “Why am I like this?”—especially after a tough conversation, a moment of indecision, or one of those “what was I thinking?” spirals?

In this love note, Cortney gently reframes that question into something better, kinder, and actually useful:


“What went wrong here—and what can I do about it now?”


You’ll explore:

  • Why “Why am I like this?” is a loaded baked potato đŸ„” of a question
  • How grace + growth can happen when we get curious instead of critical
  • A simple 5-step reflection to help you move forward with clarity and kindness


✹ You are not a problem to be solved. You are God’s beloved—designed with purpose and grace.


đŸ“„ Book a God-Given Gifts Chat if you're ready to explore how your unique wiring and rhythms can support the life God’s calling you to live. No pressure. Just space to reflect, process, and grow.

Wondering what your God-given gifts actually are—and how to honor them in the middle of real life (not just the highlight reel)?


Let’s talk. 💬


The best place to start is a free God-Given Gifts Chat — a relaxed audio + text convo inside Voxer (no Zoom required, promise). We’ll unpack what’s going on in your current season, name a gift I see in you, and talk through one simple step you can take to start using it.


No pressure. No pretending. Just a grace-filled space to help you get unstuck and move forward with a little more clarity and confidence.


✹Book your God-Given Gifts Chat — or just reply to any email from me with "I'm curious" and I’ll send the details your way.

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Tribe Beloved: Love NotesBy Cortney Loui