Not EVERYTHING needs to be told and NOT all secrets are bad....It must be the heart of the man that leads his mind in the Right direction.. ( unless it is true a woman can remain loyal even when she does not reveal things to you, she is not DECEIVING you ) I guess if your heart is good it's as good as gold or any treasure one can imagine after 60 years of Love the greatest gift of all,,Wow, what is money you won't spend, when you had it all along!?!