It is so easy to place sole blame on the other party when a relationship ends.  How often have you sat down to reflect about ways in which you might have contributed to its untimely ending? How often have you thought about unhealthy patterns of behavior you might be engaging in that aren't having your desire effect? In this week's episode, Jess and Tiffany discuss why doing your own inner work is so important, to include was to handle being around others who haven't done theirs.