Feel Pray Love - Episode 64 - Embodying Safety to Receive Everything We Deserve
In today’s episode, our host Nikki, talks about the essence of the feminine - how women block themselves from receiving. She explains the different ways the feminine deceives herself, and how she must surrender to trust in safety, to be open to receiving all that she deserves.
Femininity
-Feminine energy can take form in a man, a woman, a cat, a flower, it can take any form
-There is a small percentage of those who identify as a balance between masculine and feminine
-“When I embody my true self, life begins to work in harmony with me” - Nikki
-Nikki says she is here to help women claim their feminine essence
-Woman, at her very core is everything, literally everything. The experience of everything at once is the feminine. This is why those who rest in the feminine, become overwhelmed, as they experience everything so fully.
-The feminine's deepest yearning is to be filled by the love of the masculine, coming in as love, protection, money, food, etc. The feminine is open, and always wants more depth. The masculine is always yearning for peace, nothingness, silence.
Removing Blockages
-As a feminine being, we are a lot, but we are not too much.
-Today’s Transmission - “I want a lot and I am a lot”
-The blockage is that we make our desire for things wrong
-Wanting it all is the genuine authentic expression of the feminine
-When we shove parts of ourselves down, they do not go away, we just stop acknowledging that part of ourselves
-While that block may have been influenced by society, it was made and is sustained by you. Which is great, because it means we can remove it.
Receptivity
-Another pillar of the feminine essence is receptivity
-There is no greater joy to the masculine, than watching her open fully to receive all that he has to give her
-“The feminine loves to receive, her innate nature is to receive it all” - Nikki
-We've been trained to think that receiving isn't good, that receiving comes with a price, we can do things on our own, etc.
-When we don't allow ourselves to receive, it is reflected in a much bigger way
Trusting in our Safety
-The man, holds the container of safety (black circle) and if she really trusts him, she gets unravel into and fully fill the container
-Surrender based trust - ‘I know I am protected, guided, cared for, so I trust’
-A common expression of the wounded feminine, is the overthinking, overdoing feminine. This shows up as control
-Instead of a to-do list, Nikki suggests a ‘flow’ list
-Things don't even have to be on the flow list, they just need to call to you in the moment
-“The reason you want to control everything is because you do not feel safe” - Nikki
-This pattern will not change until we decide to address our safety
Final Thoughts
-“Money is always coming, there is unlimited money, but if I don't believe that, then that belief will be reflected in the way that I relate to money” - Nikki
-When you are open, you can receive
-When the root is mistrust, the manifestation is control
-When the root is trust, the manifestation is surrender
HER:Reclamation
-A 5 week group program for women
-This isn't a mindset course, it won't teach you the law of attraction, because you already ARE the law of attraction
-This is an embodiment course
Links
Her Reclamation Course: www.nikkisunshine.info/store
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