The Elevated Adolescence Podcast

#64: It's me, hi. I'm the problem, it's me: How to know if you're projecting your own story onto your tween or teen


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I've been patiently waiting to use this nod to Taylor Swift. Genius, I tell ya.

You know how parenting your adolescent brings up your worst fears? Your insecurities? 'Am I equipped to handle this' thoughts?

You're not alone. This is very common; it happens to all of us.

And, it's often rooted in your own adolescent story that's gone unprocessed.

In this week's episode, I guide you through 10 questions to get you thinking and making sense of your own story. This is important because...

  • you want your adolescent to live their own life, not a projection of the life you didn't have
  • you want your adolescent to walk out the door feeling confident and trusting themselves
  • and, you want your adolescent to treat you and others with respect
  • All of these wants are valid, and making them real in your life often starts with ensuring your projections are a thing of the past.

    I hope this helps you get closer to the peace you deserve,

    Ashley

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    The Elevated Adolescence PodcastBy Ashley Chandler

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