Rediscovering Healthy Masculinity: Insights from Johnny Cole

In this episode of Date Night Confessions, hosts Zak and Michele discuss the concept of healthy masculinity with guest Johnny Cole, a men's work practitioner from South Africa. The conversation covers the recent surge in their relationship coaching program and introduces their new monthly membership upgrade aimed at building secure love. Johnny elaborates on the impact of patriarchy on men, explaining how it shapes their behaviors and societal roles. He also talks about the importance of men's work in helping men cultivate emotional skills, build self-esteem, and foster healthy relationships. The discussion touches on the challenges in modern dating, the importance of parental involvement in raising emotionally healthy boys, and practical steps men can take to start their personal development journey. The episode provides valuable insights for both men and women on fostering healthier relationships and promoting emotional wholeness.

00:00 Exciting Announcements and New Beginnings

01:08 Introduction to Date Night Confessions

01:49 Welcoming Johnny Cole: A Deep Dive into Men's Work

06:22 Understanding Patriarchy and Its Impact

15:37 Defining Healthy Masculinity

16:50 Challenges and Solutions in Relationships

27:54 The Importance of Men's Emotional Work

42:49 Signs of Emotional Immaturity in Men

43:17 Understanding Anger and Emotional Expression

44:17 The Role of Patriarchy in Emotional Expression

44:59 The Importance of Emotional Regulation

45:31 Violence and Emotional Regulation

46:47 Patriarchy and Relationship Dynamics

52:47 Economic Pressures and Traditional Values

56:08 The Role of Domestic Labor in Relationships

58:24 The Impact of Patriarchy on Dating

01:02:25 Parenting Boys in a Patriarchal Society

01:12:28 Encouraging Healthy Masculinity

01:17:27 Conclusion and Final Thoughts

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