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66 | 8 Ways to Stop Sabotaging Your Relationships


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Healing Patterns of Attachment: 8 Ways to Stop Sabotaging Your Relationships

In this episode of Date Night Confessions, hosts Zak and Michele dive into the complexities of love, particularly focusing on how attachment styles formed in early childhood can impact adult relationships. The discussion emphasizes the importance of recognizing and healing insecure attachment patterns to foster healthier and more secure connections. They outline eight common ways individuals might sabotage their relationships, such as over-communicating, self-abandoning, and jumping to worst-case scenarios. By highlighting these behaviors, Zach and Michelle aim to guide listeners towards greater emotional awareness and relationship stability. They also introduce 'The Upgrade,' a program designed to help individuals reprogram their relationship blueprints and build safer, more fulfilling connections. This episode is essential listening for anyone looking to deepen their self-understanding and enhance their relationship dynamics.

00:00 Welcome to Date Night Confessions

00:41 New Year, New Goals

02:49 Creating a Healthy Relationship

04:05 Understanding Attachment Styles

06:09 Recognizing Anxious Attachment

14:04 Testing Behavior in Relationships

20:07 Over-Communicating and Its Impact

22:42 Hypervigilance and Monitoring

25:30 Racing to the Next Milestone

29:09 Recognizing the Chase for Financial Goals

31:49 Self-Abandonment in Relationships

39:38 Fishing for Reassurance

45:32 Jumping to Worst Case Scenarios

49:24 Healing and Growth in Relationships

52:36 Conclusion and Call to Action


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