Erica Troyer shares unfiltered insights into the modern day swingers community and what REALLY happens in sex clubs -  like the etiquette around approaching another couple for sex, and why should you avoid going on single guys’ night. She chronicles her most recent relationship within the lifestyle, from the introductory dick pic, to marriage and shared commitment to a girlfriend, and an eventual divorce that started a custody battle over a $1000+ sex toy. 

For a behind-the-scenes view at the lifestyle from Erica's perspective : @erica_adams2917

To make things Instagram official : @interstatesandheartbreak

For dating commentary from my inner Carrie : interstatesandheartbreak.com

For any questions, business inquiries, or love letters : [email protected]

For a glimpse into my life when I'm not talking about dating : @lesliegnope