🚨 PSA: Being nice is NOT the same as being kind—and if you’ve been trained to be nice at all costs, it’s probably costing you more than you realize. Niceness is about avoiding conflict, keeping people comfortable, and sacrificing your own truth. Kindness, on the other hand? That’s about honesty, respect, and standing in integrity—even when it’s awkward. Carla and DocShellie pull no punches in this episode, calling out the niceness trap, the resentment it breeds, and how shifting to real kindness can change your relationships (and your life). 🔥