This week, Nia Ruth shares how dating in NY impacted her opinions on marriage and finding the one, and how her now-husband eventually lifted her skepticism. We discuss why he initially friendzoned himself, and how a Bachelor-style outing elevated things to the next level years after their initial meeting.

For a view into Nia's enviable Instagram : @niaruthwine

For custom wine recs from Napa, Paso Robles…and maaaybe Temecula : niaruth.com

To make things Instagram official : @interstatesandheartbreak

For dating commentary from my inner Carrie : interstatesandheartbreak.com

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