Welcome to Your B-Side | Midlife Metamorphosis

7. Are You a Wine Connoisseur or an Alcoholic?


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It’s a tough question, but one that midlife often makes impossible to ignore.


In this episode, Dr. Amy Lindsey takes a candid, compassionate look at how alcohol use can quietly shift from casual to concerning. What begins as a glass of wine to unwind can evolve into a nightly ritual… and before we know it, dependence hides behind the label of “self-care.”


Dr. Amy explores why midlife is often the tipping point for hidden alcoholism - from declining dopamine and chronic stress to social normalization and post-pandemic habits. With zero shame and full-hearted honesty, she unpacks how to tell when enjoyment turns into escape, and how to start finding balance again.


In this episode, you’ll learn:

  • Why midlife increases vulnerability to alcohol dependence

  • How declining dopamine levels drive the “wine o’clock” habit

  • The difference between moderation and masking

  • The science behind alcohol, sleep disruption, and fatigue

  • How to recognize your “crossover points” and what to do next

  • The mindset and tools to begin healing your relationship with alcohol


Reminder: Nothing in this podcast is a substitute for medical or professional advice. Always consult your own doctor.


KEY MOMENTS:

  • 00:45 - Midlife and the rise of hidden alcoholism
  • 05:40 - The biochemical link between dopamine decline and drinking
  • 08:57 - The false sense of relaxation: alcohol’s real impact on sleep and stress
  • 11:52 - The short-term and long-term “crossover” into alcoholism
  • 15:15 - Signs you’ve crossed the line and how to start taking your power back


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Welcome to Your B-Side | Midlife MetamorphosisBy Dr. Amy Lindsey