Everyone can fall in-Love but staying in-love is created. I can't tell you how often I hear individuals say, "we just don't love each other anymore, we've fallen out of love." Or "I love my spouse but I am not in-love with them." It is so important to understand longterm love. We are wrong to think that after the I do's it should just naturally happen like the falling-in-love part did. We have to be open and talk about this, so more married couples will choose to fight for and create that in-love feeling!