This is the first of two episodes about controlling relationships. In this I talk about signs to help you recognise if you're in a controlling relationship. This is important because controlling behaviour is ABUSE whether it's emotional, mental, psychological or physical Of course, if abuse is physical you must take action immediately if your life is in danger. This is a difficult topic and every situation is different but I have experienced a controlling relationship and believe me, taking control of your own life brings peace, calm and happiness. Take action now.