Some people use the language of BDSM and kink to hide their abusive behaviors. People seeking relationships which will allow them control and the ability to hit others are drawn to kink dating sites but they do not intend to engage in consensual kink. Unfortunately Fetlife is inundated with these folks. Here are 7 tips to help you screen out the chafe.

This episode is also available as a blog post: http://loveletterstoaunicorn.com/2021/06/30/7-tips-to-help-you-screen-for-abusers-on-kink-sites/