Welcome home, lovely!

In this heartfelt episode, I'm joined by the wonderful Rachelle Siebke as we dive into the complex world of friendship expectations, inspired by a touching Reddit post. The OP shares her emotional journey of feeling hurt and excluded when she wasn't invited to her close friend's wedding, sparking a deep conversation about the depth of their friendship and whether she's been taken for granted.

Rachelle and I explore the importance of open communication, self-validation, and setting boundaries in friendships. We emphasize the need to prioritize oneself and seek connections that are mutually supportive. We also discuss the dynamics of reciprocal relationships and the significance of self-awareness in understanding our own wounds and triggers.

Throughout our conversation, we highlight how essential it is to embrace vulnerability and maintain healthy friendships through honest communication. We conclude by celebrating the power of acknowledgment and its positive impact on relationships. Tune in to gain insights on fostering more fulfilling and supportive friendships!

In this episode:

00:00 Intro

01:58 Introduction to Rochelle's Work

11:10 Exploring Feelings and Validating Experiences

21:13 Cultivating Self-Compassion and Regulating Emotions

23:57 Using Tools for Self-Coaching

27:06 Understanding Triggers and Desires

27:50 Repairing Relationships Through Vulnerability

28:22 Understanding Emotional Reactions and the Role of the Amygdala

35:16 Navigating One-Sided Friendships and Mutual Prioritization

39:59 The Evolution of Friendships and Changing Priorities

49:13 Finding Growth and Empowerment in the Face of Rejection

52:43 Measuring Friendship Success: Connection over Longevity

54:04 The Power of Open and Honest Communication

58:28 Giving and Receiving Gifts Without Resentment

01:00:53 The Importance of Acknowledgment and Vulnerability

01:04:17 Strengthening Friendships Through Connective Conversations

01:11:16 Role-Playing Acknowledgments for Deeper Connection

01:16:12 Gratitude and Engagement

01:16:43 Leveraging Social Media for Podcast Growth

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https://www.facebook.com/RachelleSiebke.MoneyCoach/

https://www.rachellesiebke.com/

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