Shane Kohler is a relationship coach and host of The Conscious Love Show, known for helping women and men navigate dating with emotional clarity, purpose, and maturity. In this episode, he breaks down why emotional intelligence—not income or appearance—is the new standard for modern masculinity. Shane confronts the disconnection between men and women in today’s dating world, calls out indulgent singlehood, and exposes how dating apps, avoidance, and fear of vulnerability are sabotaging real intimacy. For Shane, true partnership starts when men stop escaping into comfort and start growing into presence, self-awareness, and emotional depth.