Autism Parent Club

71. Meltdown or Something Else? Understanding Autism Meltdowns and What Autistic Behavior Is Communicating


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Welcome to the Autism Parent Club Podcast!

Are you parenting a child with profound autism or navigating life with a non-verbal teen who requires 24/7 care? You’ve found your people.


We’re Chris and Becky—parents to an 18-year-old son diagnosed with Level 3 autism, sometimes referred to as severe or profound autism. Each week, we share real-life stories from our journey parenting a child with high support needs, including sensory challenges, communication barriers, meltdowns, medical visits, and meaningful milestones.


 In this episode:

In this episode, we explore a question many parents of autistic children wrestle with: Is this a meltdown, or is something else going on? Inspired by a real conversation between us about our own son, we unpack the differences between autism meltdowns, sensory overload, anxiety, physical discomfort, and behavioral dysregulation. We discuss why behavior is communication, how easily autistic behavior can be misunderstood, and why the meltdown vs tantrum autism distinction matters so much. We also share how our understanding has evolved over time, how to hold parenting theories loosely, and practical ways to test what your child may be communicating—without shame or self-blame for “not knowing sooner.” This episode offers reassurance, insight, and a more compassionate lens for understanding sensory overload in autism and the deeper meaning behind challenging behaviors.

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