Welcome to our post-show aftershock: one honest moment sparked a full-on unpacking of lateness, respect, and how we assign meaning. Carla wonders: is repeated lateness a quiet betrayal of friendship? Shelley says: not so fast. What if it's not about you at all? From neurodivergence and cultural rhythms to personal values and slippery slopes, we wander through the murky middle—where friendship, boundaries, and expectations collide. As always, we’re here not to fix, but to question. And we’d love to know: where do you draw the line?