Jeff & Cathy discuss why it is important to stay in our own lanes in life and relationships rather than trying to manage other people, even when we think it's for their benefit. This episode explores the downsides of codependence, obliging tendencies, and over-functioning. The key to avoiding those problems is grounding our self-worth in relationship with God, cultivating "Real Love" with wise people, and maintaining healthy boundaries that allow us to adequately care for our own physical, emotional and spiritual needs.