I've been really focusing on raising a kiddo who is secure in who he is. And with a state of emotional intelligence that allows him to ask for help when he needs it. Knowing that it isn't weak. It's just what he needs in that moment. 

Here's that Brené Brown and Lewis Howes chat. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TbsRU-crgsc

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