RICH talks about how a lot of people he knows that are looking get into a relationship may not realize that what is holding them back is their lifestyle. That can for someone who obsesses over their career, or someone who may party too much. Or it can be someone who is lazy and never truly puts the time in to find the right person to be with. People may have to take a hard look at the life they are leading because it's not just about what you should be doing, but also what you shouldn't.