One good way to put your life into perspective is to examine what your obituary would say if you died today. Compare this obituary to what you'd prefer it said if you changed your character and became the person you want to be before you died. You can view my preferred obituary at www.sundaystoicpodcast.com
Here is an article to give you inspiration: https://www.lifehack.org/articles/lifestyle/wake-up-call-write-your-obituary.html