What makes you attractive? Here are 8 supposed imperfections and flaws that make you more attractive than you think. The psychology of attraction has been studied for decades, and scientists have found some interesting things about what makes us attractive to other people. Of course, there are some obvious qualities we all find attractive such as self confidence, a good sense of humor, kindness, and vulnerability. And when it comes to physical attractiveness, we pay attention to things like good personal hygiene, facial symmetry, and body proportions. But we aren’t perfect. We all have some imperfections. It’s what makes us human.