20s Confidential

8. How I Learned to Love Myself (Self-Love Is an Action)


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Self-love is more than a feeling. It’s more than treating yourself. It’s what you do when no one’s watching.

In this episode, I’m sharing the perspective shifts that taught me how to truly love myself, and how I continue to practice it as I grow into the person I’ve always wanted to be. We’re talking about why self-love is an action, not just a mindset, and how showing up for yourself physically and mentally builds real self-respect. From health, fitness, and discipline, to boundaries, standards, and choosing long-term peace over short-term comfort, this episode is about what self-love actually looks like.

I also dive into letting go of comparison, learning not to take things personally, trusting that rejection is redirection (and protection), and forgiving past versions of yourself without identifying with your mistakes. If you’ve ever felt stuck, hard on yourself, or confused about what self-love really means, this conversation is for you.

Because loving yourself isn’t about becoming perfect...it’s about choosing yourself consistently.

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20s ConfidentialBy Jenna McKee