I know I'm not alone in feeling pressured to make my dating life sound as fun and reckless as possible. I used to do everything I could to come back from every date with juicy details or crazy stories because I was single and couldn't land a boyfriend. I struggle with an anxious attachment style to this day, but this was a phase where I was looking for so much external validation I had no idea where to start with loving myself first. No matter how hard I tried, there was no way for me to feel safe or secure within myself because of the amount of support I was missing in my life at the time. Whenever my self worth and confidence is extremely low and I feel desperate for love, people's energy can sense that whether they are consciously aware of it or not. Vibes don't lie, and the universe responds to the energy that we're vibrating at. Not necessarily what we want, rather, the energy we're giving off. So when I'm exuding desperate energy, it actually creates the opposite outcome that I desire. It's way easier said than done to go within myself and "solve" that problem or become more secure, but the truth is there's no magic pill to overcome an insecure attachment style. This episode is all about what I went through in this season of my life, what it felt like, what I learned, along with plenty of whack ass dating stories that will entertain you & where I'm at now in my dating life. Less advice and wisdom, more drama lol. ***TRIGGER WARNING - I share about my experience getting sexually assaulted in depth (time stamp below), if you're not in a space to hear about that, fast forward no biggie!!***

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xoxo V

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Timestamps 

7:27 angel message 999

9:13 my insecure-anxious-avoidant attachment

13:15 I got stood up

15:20 spring break- bachelorette edition

20:15 the emotionally unavailable men cycle

22:39-28:07 TRIGGER WARNING sexual assault story

28:07 pissed the bed guy

30:07 the I miss you text we all dream of… i fell for it… kinda

32:25 thank God for my therapist

34:44 clearly not qualified to give dating advice rn

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