Sunflower Sessions

8. The Healing Science of Gratitude


Listen Later

This episode explores the quiet but powerful practice of gratitude and how it strengthens families from the inside out. As we approach Thanksgiving, we look closely at the science of gratitude and why choosing to notice and appreciate the good can transform our relationships, deepen emotional safety, and increase connection within our homes.


Research consistently shows that gratitude is more than a pleasant feeling. It is a relational tool that increases empathy, strengthens trust, and builds resilience. Scholars like Sara Algoe and Jonathan Haidt reveal that gratitude functions as a powerful connector between people and strengthens long term relational bonds. Neuroscientists demonstrate that gratitude activates regions of the brain tied to emotional regulation, bonding, and wellbeing. And relationship experts like John and Julie Gottman identify gratitude and appreciation as essential components in creating thriving marriages and strong family culture.


When we intentionally speak the truth of what we appreciate, we shape the emotional climate of our homes. Gratitude helps us see each other with softer eyes. It replaces criticism with connection. It reminds us that there is beauty and goodness present even inside seasons of struggle and growth.


In this episode we explore:

• What gratitude does in the brain and body

• Why families who practice gratitude report stronger connection and warmth

• How simple expressions of appreciation repair relationships and soften conflict

• How gratitude aligns with healing principles taught by Stephen Covey and Dr Becky Kennedy


Gratitude is light. Gratitude repairs. Gratitude strengthens the family.


Thank you for being here. Thank you for choosing growth and choosing to see the good. I am grateful for you.


Referenced Works


Algoe, S., Haidt, J., and Gable, S. (2010). Beyond reciprocity: Gratitude and relationships. Emotion.

Covey, S. R. (2004). The 7 habits of highly effective people. Free Press.

Emmons, R. A., and McCullough, M. E. (2004). The psychology of gratitude. Oxford University Press.

Fox, G. R., Kaplan, J., Damasio, H., and Damasio, A. (2015). Neural correlates of gratitude. Frontiers in Psychology.

Gottman, J. M., and Silver, N. (2015). The seven principles for making marriage work. Harmony Books.

Kennedy, B. (2022). Good inside. Harper Wave.

...more
View all episodesView all episodes
Download on the App Store

Sunflower SessionsBy emily.gleave23