1. DETERMINE THE ORIGIN OF THE FEAR

2. ASSURE HER SHE IS SAFE DESPITE FEAR

3. EXPOSE WITH HER FAMILY TO HELP HER FEEL SAFE

4. WALK HER THROUGH THE PROCESS

5. WE LET HER PICK SOMETHING TO DO THE DAY BEFORE

6. HAVE SOMETHING TO LOOK FORWARD TO BEFORE THE EVENT

7. HAVE SOMETHING TO LOOK FORWARD TO AFTER THE EVENT

8. LET HER EXPERIENCE WHAT SHE IS READY TO EXPERIENCE.