The words we use to describe our events, situations and problems have significant impact on the size of the problem and issue we make out.  A scratch can become a huge exaggeration for someone who thinks they’ll bleed out. A person seeing blood and feeling faint and nauseous has linked it to mean something very bad and disgusting and so they focus on what it could mean. Using terms like ‘cheater’ coward and weak in wrong context can have huge impact on starting off with a blame mindset rather than a solution mindset with accountability. Learn why it's so important for your relationship with yourself and others to create correct meaning and language.