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83. Importance Of Evaluating A Future Spouse | Braincast

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In this episode your host Levi Brickley discusses the importance of evaluating a future spouse. Why is it important to understand your dating preferences and why? What are the implications of not evaluating these things? This is subjective but important to begin evaluating who we want to become and who we want to be with. This is a deep topic and at face value it may appear simplistic but we all want a healthy future with a spouse and the real question is... "How do we become the type of partner our future spouse would choose to be with?" This topic begins with you!



Key Points:

Why this conversation is important

  • This not to diminish women but bring light to a challenge every single man faces. Is it okay to having dating expectations
  • If so why is it important 
  • How do we approach this as men?
  • Before anything we must discuss the individual importance of working on you.


    • Personal story 

    • As I shared in episode 81 I come from a fatherless home and I understand the importance had my father been there in my life
    • How it prepared me to be the man a long term partner would want to be with.
    • Emotional stability
    • Financial importance
    • Disciplined
    • Heart of service
    • Humility and sacrifice


      • Societal challenge

      • Men are often told how to think and consistently told we are wrong for our internal desire for a woman?
      • Often I think we make dating a science and we take away the importance of spontaneity 
      • We need to allow relationships to develop
      • Why is it important to understand the need to “Go with the flow.” Allow her to show herself
      • Expect women to test you? As they should!


        • Questions to ask yourself

        • How will she contend with you?
        • How do her values align with yours?
        • What are her strengths and where does she add value beyond her presence?
        • Where can you add value to her?
        • How will her current situation impact your life getting into a committed relationship?
        • Does she hold onto her past or is optimistic for the future?



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