Why doesn’t life give you what you want? Dr.Ken Harris has a few thoughts. For one, it’s because life is selfish, another is that life is also self serving, and life is about everybody else. At least that’s how’s it seems to Dr.Ken Harris, he says people go through life with the “I want” mentality and then fall apart when we don’t get it. Would you agree with the sentiment that life doesn’t give you what you want but it always gives you what you deserve? For many, it’s about the effort you put forth that give you your outcome.