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Not everyone who watches you wants you to win. In this episode, I explore the “watching game” — the silence, the jealousy, the backhanded compliments, and the quiet spectators who never clap but never stop looking. Together, we’ll unpack why people hold back, how their silence can shape us, and why external validation isn’t the fuel we need. If you’ve ever felt overlooked or unsupported, this conversation will remind you of your worth, your strength, and the power of steady, undeniable progress.
By Zama MthombeniNot everyone who watches you wants you to win. In this episode, I explore the “watching game” — the silence, the jealousy, the backhanded compliments, and the quiet spectators who never clap but never stop looking. Together, we’ll unpack why people hold back, how their silence can shape us, and why external validation isn’t the fuel we need. If you’ve ever felt overlooked or unsupported, this conversation will remind you of your worth, your strength, and the power of steady, undeniable progress.