Too many times we hear how we shouldn't act, dress, speak, and on and on, from the pulpit.

The Law was our teacher, and with it we learned it is just not possible to live and not break a single one.

Jesus gave to us Grace and Peace.  We no longer have a teacher.  We are become teachers.  

If we do not have the "Law of God" written on the tablets of our heart, we try in vain to live by the stone tablets given to Moses.

If you only hear condemnation and accusation from the pulpit of your church, find the place where you get understanding and uplifting that enables you to serve God with all that He has for you.