We're Sober, Now What?

9. Criticism & Praise


Listen Later

What happens when your self-worth is tied to what other people think?

In this episode, Amanda and Melissa unpack the downsides of criticism AND praise and the trap of thinking our work - whether it be personal or professional - only has value if it gets attention.

It’s not uncommon that patterns of approval seeking still linger post-sobriety. The hosts share the ways the need for external validation shows up in their lives still today & distracts from real growth.

Together, they break down these different manifestations of craving and how to own these important needs & the meeting of them as an inside job.

If you’ve ever felt like your value depends on how others see you & are ready to shift from needing validation to trusting your own voice—this episode is for you. 

Love this episode? Subscribe to our ⁠SUBSTACK⁠ and join the conversation! Leave a review and share your thoughts on this episode.

Thanks for listening! 




This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit weresobernowwhat.substack.com
...more
View all episodesView all episodes
Download on the App Store

We're Sober, Now What?By Melissa Kelly, Ph.D. and Amanda Grace