What actually matters in a relationship after baby?

In this episode, I’m talking about something deeper than chore charts and 50/50 splits. I’m talking about emotional capacity. About willingness. About choosing a partner who can hold you when things get hard 🤍

After struggling with OCD, anxiety, and depression — both before and after becoming a mum — I realized something important: I didn’t need perfect. I needed willing. I needed someone who could sit with me in discomfort, stay when things felt messy, and try again even when neither of us had it figured out 🫠

We’re getting into:

• The mental load beyond just household tasks

• Emotional capacity vs. experience

• The caretaker shift that can happen after baby 👶🏻

• Grace without lowering your standards

• What to look for in a partner if you want children

• Conversations to have before marriage and motherhood

This episode isn’t about blaming anyone. It’s about discernment. About maturity. About building a partnership that can actually withstand real life 🤍✨

If you’ve ever wondered what truly sustains love after baby — this one’s for you 🍵

The episode is live now on Apple, Spotify, and YouTube 🎙️

Come say hi and let me know what you think 🤍