After attending a wedding I was reflecting on marriage and what advice I would give to the newly married bride and groom.  After 24 years of being together with my husband and celebrating 19 years of marriage this year I came up with 9 tips for longevity.  Anyone that says it's easy is wrong.  A strong marriage is not void of problems but equip with tools to deal with everything life brings.   The work is worth it when you get to spend your life with the one you love in a healthy, happy, fulfilling relationship.