Matt and Sarah talk about life in the garden of love and marriage. You have a choice. You can be mindful of the weeds in your garden as they grow, and gently pluck them at the root. Or, you can let the weeds grow up, only to later spend countless hours and amounts of energy fighting to pull their roots from the ground, hoping to restore the beauty of what has been overtaken while you overlooked or neglected the problem. Just like in a real garden, meeting your partner’s needs isn’t something you can do just once; you must tend to it daily with persistence, love and devotion.