A love list is a list of characteristics and qualities you are looking for in a potential mate.  Before I met my husband, I wrote a love list and stored it away. While we were dating, I came across the list as I was searching for another document and realized that he had virtually all of the qualities on the list. While I don't believe that writing the list is what made me and him get together, I do believe that it's important to have an idea of what you want from a potential mate in a relationship. My list had 29 items. I share the remaining 14 items in this episode.